Nina Hartley: The Registered Nurse Who Became Porn's Longest-Running Sex Educator
A blacklisted father, a Berkeley childhood, a promise never to cut class, and a career that has outlasted almost everyone's. Sourced and SFW.
Key facts
- Real name: Marie Louise Hartman, born March 1959 in Berkeley, California (Wikipedia)
- Family: Her father, a San Francisco radio announcer, was blacklisted in 1957 (Wikipedia, The Humanist)
- Education: BSN, San Francisco State University, magna cum laude, 1985 (Wikipedia, Las Vegas Weekly)
- Debut: Educating Nina (1984), directed by Juliet Anderson (Kink Weekly)
- Mainstream: Boogie Nights (1997), opposite William H. Macy (Wikipedia)
- Honors: An honorary doctorate from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality (Las Vegas Weekly)
Who is Nina Hartley?
Nina Hartley is the stage name of Marie Louise Hartman, an American adult performer and sex educator. By 2017 she had appeared in more than 1,000 adult films (Wikipedia). Las Vegas Weekly called her an “outspoken feminist, sex educator and advocate for sexual freedom” and “a guiding force for a generation of feminist porn stars and directors” (Las Vegas Weekly). Most careers in this business last a few years. Hers has lasted four decades, and she has a theory about why.
Growing up in the aftermath of the blacklist
Hartley was born in Berkeley in 1959, the youngest of four children (Wikipedia). Her family’s story starts with political persecution. She told The Humanist:
“My father had been blacklisted in 1957, two years before I was born, so the family was in a bit of turmoil when I arrived.”
— Nina Hartley to The Humanist (source)
Her mother supported the family as a chemist and statistician for the state public health department (The Humanist, Wikipedia). Her grandfather, Joseph Gelders, was a physics professor and civil-rights and labor activist in 1930s Alabama (Wikipedia). Her parents came close to divorcing in the hard years after the blacklist, and then found Zen Buddhism in 1969, when she was ten (The Humanist).
That history shaped her. “I understood from an early age that you could fight for the life you wanted, and it was honorable to also fight for the rights of others,” she told Kink Weekly in 2017 (Kink Weekly).
The science kid
She was not a likely rebel. “I loved all natural science as a child and wanted to be Jane Goodall when I grew up,” she told The Humanist. “I especially liked human biology and anatomy” (The Humanist). As a teenager she called herself a feminist, influenced by the slogan “my body, my rules” (Wikipedia).
After Berkeley High School (class of 1977) she went into the undergraduate nursing program at San Francisco State. She graduated magna cum laude in 1985 with a Bachelor of Science in Nursing (Wikipedia).
The nursing-school promise
While still in school she started dancing at San Francisco theaters. Her first film, Educating Nina (1984), came about when her then-partner ran into veteran performer Juliet Anderson. What stands out is the rule she set for herself:
“My promise to myself was I’d never cut class to make a movie, and I never did. I knew that I was going to be talking about this and ‘Nina Hartley, RN,’ has a lot more weight than ‘Nina Hartley, college drop out.’”
— Nina Hartley to Kink Weekly, March 2017 (source)
She added that nursing “grounds you in basic biology and science, plus how to be effectively compassionate.” The stage name was practical too. According to Wikipedia, “Nina” was easy for tourists to say, and “Hartley” was close to her real surname because she “wanted a name that sounded like that of a real person” (Wikipedia).
“Why sex? Why not the violin?”
Her father asked her the question every performer’s parent wants to ask. In her own account, quoted by Wikipedia, she said she is “sexual the way that Mozart was musical” (Wikipedia). She told Kink Weekly the same story: “My dad said once, ‘Why sex, but not the violin?’ and I just had to say that it was my Thing, the way Zen was his” (Kink Weekly).
The educator
Her professional identity has always been teaching. She directed her first movie in 1992. She made educational series for Adam & Eve and, starting in 1994, launched the Nina Hartley’s Guide line. In 2006 she co-wrote Nina Hartley’s Guide to Total Sex with her husband Ira Levine, which Library Journal called “well-written” (Wikipedia). She has lectured at Dartmouth, Harvard and the University of California, and she appeared on Oprah and Donahue to defend the industry (Wikipedia).
She says HIV made her role clearer. “The silver lining of the HIV debacle was that we had to talk about sex in public,” she told Kink Weekly. “I’m a nurse, so for me there’s no shame in desire, just responsibility in behavior.” She also claims a first: “I was the first woman in porn to say, ‘I’ll talk to the press, send them over to me!’” (Kink Weekly).
Boogie Nights and the long game
In Paul Thomas Anderson’s Boogie Nights (1997) she played the wife of William H. Macy’s character. “William H Macy is the world’s nicest man,” she told Kink Weekly. “He was a decent human being, treated me like a fellow professional, like a peer” (Kink Weekly). She has noted the irony that “the only movie I ever died in for having sex was a mainstream movie” (Wikipedia).
In 2010 Las Vegas Weekly spoke to her hours before she received her honorary doctorate and asked about her longevity:
“I have had a point of view the entire time.”
— Nina Hartley to Las Vegas Weekly, 2010 (source)
She also has a long record in advocacy. She was elected to the Free Speech Coalition board in 1995, has long served on the board of the Woodhull Freedom Foundation, and has been affiliated with the performer union APAC (Wikipedia). She has faced harsh criticism from anti-pornography feminists throughout her career and has never stopped answering it (Las Vegas Weekly).
My Take (opinion — Maximo Garcia)
Nina is the reason people like me can say “this is a job” with a straight face. She treated it like a profession before the business had words for it: finish your degree, know the biology, speak to the press yourself, and have a point of view. That last part is the one I think about most. Fame fades, and so does a body. What lasts is a perspective people trust.
Her other lesson has aged well. She said, years before creator platforms took off, that a performer could live off a small, loyal audience. That’s how I run my own work. See maximogarciaworld.com.
Related reading: Nina was asked to weigh in on Belle Knox’s Duke story. She played opposite Lisa Ann in the 2008 Palin parody, and she shared the 1980s industry with Ginger Lynn.
FAQ
Is Nina Hartley really a nurse?
She earned a BSN magna cum laude in 1985. Her license lapsed in 1986 (Wikipedia).
What is Nina Hartley’s real name?
Marie Louise Hartman (Wikipedia).
Was Nina Hartley in Boogie Nights?
Yes, opposite William H. Macy (Wikipedia).
What was Nina Hartley’s first film?
Educating Nina (1984) (Kink Weekly).
How we fact-checked this
Every fact and quote was checked against the sources below, and quotes are reproduced as published. We deliberately kept explicit material out.
Sources
- The Humanist: “Atheism, Ethics, and Pornography: An Interview with Nina Hartley” (Sept/Oct 2010) — https://thehumanist.com/magazine/september-october-2010/features/atheism-ethics-and-pornography-an-interview-with-nina-hartley/
- Las Vegas Weekly: “Nina Hartley’s adult film career has been long, distinguished and trailblazing” (Oct 6, 2010) — https://lasvegasweekly.com/as-we-see-it/2010/oct/06/nina-hartleys-adult-film-career-has-been-long-dist/
- Kink Weekly: “Dexx Interviews Nina Hartley” (Mar 20, 2017) — https://www.kinkweekly.com/interview/dexx-interviews-nina-hartley/
- Wikipedia: Nina Hartley — https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nina_Hartley